All of us have a friends. We all need a friends. A friends that we can share some secrets or even problems that bothering to us. It feels alone whenever you don't have someone that you can lean on. Everything get easy or light whenever you have a friends cause your helping each other.
While searching for a blog that relates with my topic, I found this certain blog that talks about friendship, entitled What is Friendship? by Jack Clarke. We are all familiar what does friendship all about and we do have our own definition for it. Friendship is something that the two or more can rely or count on to each other specially in times you are in need.
As to what I've read a summary of it would be, friendship is not just for benefit. Friendship is like being a family to someone whom you don't have that blood relation though. Its about spending time to that person ,sharing things, story, and experiences to each other. In a friendship gender, age, etc. will mean nothing cause a true friendship don't see those thing. It takes time to earn the trust of a person and that is friendship all about. Trusting each other.
With my 18 years of living in this world, I could say that I made friends. I've called and considered my close friends as my best friend. You know what, we call a person as our best friend cause we share same thoughts and we like same things. Your best friend cause you are same with so many things. I've swear to so many friends that "You are my one and only best friend forever" but you meet new friends who are just like your other friends. Do you get me here? What I am trying to say is that, sometimes distance divides it. The communication really matters too. It's not just about trust that strengthen your friendship but how you put an effort to keep in touch to that person.
"Cherishing together the joys and traumas of change and growth. Nourishing one another's dreams, hopes, and decisions along the path. Encouraging your friend to stretch as far as possible. Receiving feedback without questioning motive. Easing pain instead of fueling the fire of hurt. Loving another person in spite of differences and imperfections." This is just some of the lines from the blog of Jack Clarke
After all, its not just about in good times. Friendship is like entering in to a contract. a marriage that for better for worse you'll be there for each other. Things might not be always on your side. Days might not be always good but the point is as long as you are there for each other you'll get through of those thing.
You are friends cause you put an effort to be friends. You spent many years and days together to earn the respect for each other. Your love and care for each other is priceless. You are more than a brother or a sister to him/her that you can't even afford to let him/her down. You always think for what is good for your friend and you never stab your friend at the back.